For Families
For Families
Ways to remember, together
After cremation, families are left with practical and emotional decisions – from collecting the cremated remains to deciding how best to honour the person who has died. Earthbound was created to help guide families through these moments, removing many of the practical difficulties and offering a thoughtful way to create a lasting memorial.
Shared memories
Cremated remains can be carefully divided, allowing multiple memorials to be created or portions to be shared between family members.
Families often hold different views on what feels right. Some may wish to keep a memorial close by, while others may prefer to scatter ashes in a place that holds meaning. In many cases, family members are also spread across different locations, making a single, fixed memorial less accessible.
As part of creating a singular Earthbound memorial, we separate the ashes: a portion is prepared for the living memorial, a small amount is retained in a memorial cylinder, and the remainder is secured within the memorial plinth.
During this process, additional portions for family members can be carefully divided and packaged within a memorial cylinder. This packaging is designed for either keeping safely or scattering at a time and place of choosing.
Any additional memorial cylinders are returned alongside the complete Earthbound memorial for distribution to family members by the recipient. We can prepare as many as are required, with this arranged as part of your order and any associated costs confirmed in advance.
Should other family members prefer their own Earthbound memorial, we are happy to support this. Where possible, we encourage arrangements to be discussed and agreed together, so that everything is clear from the outset.
Connected Memorials
Each Earthbound memorial includes a shared digital memorial page, designed to connect family and friends.
Family members can be invited to access the page, where they are able to add photographs, music, voice notes, and written memories over time.
This creates a collective space that continues to evolve beyond the moment of loss. It is also a place for families to reminisces and offer ongoing support.
Where multiple Earthbound memorials exist within a family, the memorial pages can be linked. This forms a connected record of lives and relationships, creating a lasting reference for future generations.
Woodland Scatterings
A private woodland scattering can be offered where families do not wish to retain the remaining ashes.
This is not a public service and is not widely advertised. It is provided where it feels appropriate, as part of the care we offer to families navigating these decisions.
The scattering takes place privately in a designated woodland area on family-owned land in Hampshire, with the consent of the landowners. The location is not publicly accessible and is not a place that can be visited. No permanent markers are placed, and no identifying details are shared.
Families receive a record of the act as a form of private remembrance, including a short, written account and a small number of photographs reflecting the woodland environment.
When this may be offered
As part of an Earthbound memorial
Where only a portion of the ashes is used, and the remainder is not required to be returned, woodland scattering can be arranged as a closing act of care.
As an alternative
In some cases, a living memorial may not feel appropriate. Woodland scattering may then be offered as a standalone option, carried out with the same care and discretion.
A considered approach
This option exists to support families, not to replace a living memorial.
If you would like to talk this through, we are always happy to discuss, without obligation.
FAMILY CONSIDERATIONS
When the ashes are still being held
Some families are not ready to make decisions immediately after cremation. It is common to take time before returning to the question of what feels right, particularly after an already demanding and emotional period.
In many cases, the ashes remain with the funeral director during this time, while families consider their options.
Our Approach
There is no expected timeframe. Some families arrange a memorial soon after cremation, while others return to the decision months or years later. Both are entirely valid.
We will go at your pace, supporting you in understanding the options available and helping you arrive at a decision that feels considered and appropriate.
When collecting the ashes feels difficult
Families can feel unprepared for the moment they are asked to collect the ashes from the funeral director or crematorium. The process can feel abrupt, and the ashes are often presented in a way that may not reflect the significance of the person they represent.
Our Approach
Where needed, Earthbound can arrange collection of the cremated remains directly from the funeral director or crematorium on your behalf.
We handle the practical arrangements, including any necessary permissions, so that the ashes can be brought into our care without placing that responsibility on you.
The ashes are then prepared as part of the memorial itself, and delivered as a considered and lasting tribute.
When families are unsure what to do with the ashes, or hold different views
There is often uncertainty around what to do with a loved one’s ashes, particularly where no clear wishes were left. Families may hold different views, and there can be concern about causing upset or disagreement when making decisions.
Our Approach
When handling the ashes feels uncomfortable
Some families feel uneasy about handling cremated remains directly or are unsure how this would be done.
Our Approach
When committing to a fixed memorial feels difficult
Some people feel unsure about committing to a memorial in a fixed location, for fear they may relocate in time.
Our Approach
When there is concern about caring for the tree
Some people worry about whether they will be able to care for a living memorial, or what it might mean if the tree does not survive.
